Stillbirth should come with a warning

It’s been a while, it’s been a really long while. That is no reflection on my journey, it doesn’t mean I don’t think of my son or I’ve ‘moved on’.. truth be told I started to feel abit silly posting, like people thought I was looking for attention everytime I posted the link or a […]

Mental health

One thing I think is pretty obvious but still takes many (well me, anyway) by surprise is how the mental health is affected by such a loss. I am 20 months into my journey and I have never felt more fragile. I have 2 beautiful living boys who keep me breathing every single day and […]

Time passes but the pain is still the same.

First I need to apologise. It’s been so long since I’ve wrote about you and I feel so guilty about that. I’m sure you know that your little brother has taken up alot of our time but don’t for one second think that means I don’t still think about you each and every day. Don’t […]


We’re almost there. Almost at 1 whole year since the day you were born and today is extra raw, it’s been one whole year since it all started. One whole year since I was admitted into hospital with severe bleeding and I was being prepped for theatre and possible blood transfusion. One whole year since […]

Its been a while!

Hi guys! I am aware I have more than abandoned this page recently and I couldn’t bring myself to explain what was going on with me but then I figured, why? I named my blog life after stillbirth for a reason and that is so people can have an insight into all aspects of life […]

No words.

I’ve been trying to find the words to write this post for a couple of weeks now and I haven’t been able too, Im still not really sure of the right ones tbh but I can’t keep that from letting me do these posts because in reality that is life, sometimes there are just no […]

Life after stillbirth

If there’s one thing I can’t control it’s that life does continue after stillbirth, the days and the months still roll by. And you find yourself in new places before you know it, having found out I was pregnant again recently this made me realise more than ever that, I can’t stop the world from […]